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November 12, 2019

The Topic: Lonely Hearts Club 

The News Story: Let’s Wage a War on Loneliness

The New Research: Unmarried—And Lonely


The News Story: Let’s Wage a War on Loneliness 

In a recent piece for the New York Times, columnist Nicholas Kristof highlighted a very serious problem facing both British and Americans alike: loneliness.

In the piece, Kristof discussed a recent discussion he had held with the United Kingdom’s “minister of loneliness,” Baroness Barran. Loneliness, Barran says, “touches almost every one of us at some point.” It can also “have very serious health consequences for the individual and leads to erosion of our society, where people become isolated and disconnected.” Kristof believes that in the U.S., such phenomenon as the opioid crisis and soaring suicide rates are heavily impacted by “social isolation.” “Extended families have dissolved,” he writes, “and social institutions like churches, bowling leagues and neighborhood clubs have frayed. We are no longer so deeply embedded in our communities.”

The remedy? Kristof is a big fan of the ministry for loneliness and the work it is doing in the U.K. The “Let’s Talk Loneliness” campaign is offering grants to “local gardening clubs, bird-watching groups and others so that they can spread the word and invite more people to join.” The ministry also supports “friendly benches,” meant to encourage people to sit and talk to one another.

But in this discussion of health, happiness, gardening, bird-watching, and “friendly benches,” one thing is glaringly absent: the relationship between loneliness and being unmarried. No “war on loneliness” can overlook the necessity of encouraging the institution of marriage once again.

(Source: Nicholas Kristof, “Let’s Wage a War Against Loneliness,” New York Times, November 9, 2019.)


The New Research: Unmarried—And Lonely

The media and popular entertainment often depict the single life as glamorous and carefree. Such favorable depictions of the single life look rather dubious in light of a new German study concluding that unmarried men and women are distinctively vulnerable to loneliness and related psychological and physical illnesses.

Authored by scholars at Johannes Gutenberg University, the new study investigates “loneliness . . . as a risk to mental and physical health” among German adults. The researchers note that earlier studies have linked loneliness to “many negative mental health outcomes, such as depression, suicidality, reduced positive emotions, poor sleep quality and general health.” The physical health problems associated with loneliness identified in these earlier studies include “defective immune function and [increased] blood pressure” and the psychological problems include “reduced self-esteem and decreased coping.”

Not surprisingly, earlier studies have limned a connection between loneliness and “low life satisfaction and low resilience—particularly in men.” Earlier research has also shown that “loneliness . . . aggravates the morbidity and mortality of cardiovascular, cerebrovascular, and other chronic diseases” and is “related to cognitive decline and Alzheimer’s disease in aging.” At a time when medical costs are soaring in many aging countries, it is disturbing that earlier researchers have also concluded that loneliness is “associated with physical inactivity, smoking, and multiple health risk behaviors."

To gauge the effect of loneliness on 21st-century Germans, the researchers pore over data collected between 2007 and 2012 from a large and nationally representative sample of 15,010 adults between the ages of 35 and 74. Using a statistical model that accounts for demographic differences in age, gender, socioeconomic status, and employment, the researchers calculate that those experiencing loneliness are nearly twice as vulnerable to depression as those free from loneliness (Odds Ratio of 1.91). Among the study participants reporting depression, the researchers find a high prevalence of “generalized anxiety and panic attacks.” No wonder the researchers find that, compared to those free from loneliness, the study participants experiencing loneliness were over a third again more vulnerable to suicidal thoughts (Odds Ratio of 1.35). Further analysis revealed that, compared to peers free from loneliness, lonely adults were more likely to smoke and to visit physicians frequently (p < 0.0001 for both comparisons).

Inevitably, patterns of home life heavily affect loneliness. Among the study participants that the researchers identify as most likely to experience loneliness are those “without a partner or without children” (p < 0.0001 in comparisons with peers with partners and peers with children). The researchers report that less than one in thirty men and less than one in fifteen women living with a partner complained of loneliness (maximal values of 2.7% and 5.9% respectively). In sharp contrast, though it varies by age group, the incidence of loneliness runs between 10% and 20% among study participants living alone. The researchers also find that women living alone are decidedly more likely than men living alone to feel lonely. The researchers limn the pattern by age group: “Women living alone in the age range 35-44 years (20.7% vs. 13.9%) and 55-64 years (19.3% vs. 11.6%) were considerably more affected by loneliness than men.”

At a time when marriage rates and fertility rates are low in Western Europe, while divorce rates remain relatively high, the authors of the new study have every reason to assert in their conclusion that “loneliness poses a significant health problem for a sizeable part of the population with increased risks in terms of distress (depression, anxiety), suicidal ideation, health behavior and health care utilization.” And the decline of marriage, it seems, is a crucial component of such problems.

(Source: Bryce Christensen and Nicole M. King, “New Research,” The Natural Family. Study: Manfred E. Beutel et al., “Loneliness in the General Population: Prevalence, Determinants and Relations to Mental Health,” BMC Psychiatry 17 [2017]: 97, Web.)